The time has finally come and you and your partner have talked it over several times and decided to try male chastity. Congratulations! Welcome to a whole new world of experiences and we hope you enjoy it as much as we do.
How Do I Get Started?
The first thing we recommend is to have an open and honest conversation with your partner or dominant. We must emphasize that open and honest communication is the foundation on which everyone should begin. This applies to many areas of life. Especially in the context of a relationship, and more specifically when it comes to sexual fantasies.
If your partner confides in you about his most intimate desires, it is important that you listen to him and respect him enough to have the courage to talk about them with you. Even if this is something you don’t like or loathe, don’t shame him; he’s brave enough to tell you.
Now You Must Choose Your Cage!
For those trying out the equipment for the first time, my team and I would probably recommend resin or 3D resin cages.
You can choose between resin, 3D resin, and metal. As with all things, they each have pros and cons depending on what you want. Here’s a table that summarizes the pros and cons of each chastity cage material.
Measure Yourself and Don’t Cheat!
You’ll usually need to know the length of the penis when it’s not erect, as well as the width and girth of the penis and testicles (taken behind and around the bag).
For chastity beginners, I highly recommend mytoyamz chastity cages https://www.mytoyamz.com/chastity-cages.
They are both very nice and very affordable!
The Package Is in My Hand
Get used to the chastity cage and test it, play with it for hours and days. Take it apart and put it back together. Familiarize yourself with the cage as you may spend a lot of time there. Does the unit fit together easily? Is the locking mechanism a bit stiff? Is the key easy to remove once the unit is locked? Does the device have any sharp or rough edges? These are all things you need to know before placing your cage.
Trust my experience, your cage will become a part of you and it’s best to know what you’ll be wearing for days, weeks or even months.
It’s Time to Wear Your Cage!
Given the excitement, you will most likely get an erection while trying to wear the device. This is completely normal! However, if you’re just trying to get things done, it can be frustrating.
Here are some tips to help you “diffuse” the situation:
- Ask your partner/dominant to leave the room if necessary.
- Think about things that are not sexy.
- Breathe deeply and calmly.
If that doesn’t work, take a cold shower. The cold will definitely ruin your erection, but the cold will also constrict your blood vessels and make the whole thing feel smaller. It’s a great thing to do.
I’m Lubed Up and Caged. I’m Chaste, Is It Over?
Final safety precaution: the key.
There are 3 main scenarios for chastity and keys. One is if you do this with your partner, the other is if you pay a mistress or master to keep your keys, or if you manage it yourself.
If you do it with your partner, that’s great! Separate keys – Most devices come with at least two keys. You keep one in a safe place and your partner keeps one. Be sure to have her wear it around her neck so you can always see her and remember this secret between you. As far as I know, it’s a wonderful feeling! However, you must keep one of the keys in a safe and easily accessible place in case the first key is lost or in case of an absolute emergency.
The Second Key Is in a Safe Place
It’s time to check how you feel and act accordingly. How is the cage placed? Is there anything uncomfortable about it?… The equipment that fits you should not be too uncomfortable. The only possible discomfort should be when trying to get an erection. Otherwise, the device should be comfortable.
If all goes well, it’s time to check your testicles. How are they? Are they tight? Is there friction? If there is chafing, you will need a slightly larger ring, so choose a larger size. Your testicles should not be discolored. If they turn blue or purple, stop wearing the chastity cage and use a larger ring.
Anything Else?
The last point is about long-term chastity, health, and cleanliness. Wash daily. Twice a day if you do manual labor or play sports. Soap and water are enough to do the job, and most devices have urethral openings and side openings to ventilate the penis. Your health must be a top priority. I recommend that you leave your cage once a day in order to thoroughly clean your cage and your sex organs.
Chastity is not an excuse for a lack of hygiene. Failure to maintain cleanliness is a disgrace to yourself and your partner/keyholder – take pride in your decision to submit and take care of yourself.
Keep it clean – or it’s bad. Wash regularly with soap and water.
Enjoy the World of Male Chastity
I promise you, things will never be the same again. Welcome and enjoy.
